Tirades: From Inside An Insane Asylum
I’ve been sitting on a nice sum of cash that has been burning a hole in my pocket, or my ass … so to speak. So yesterday I had this bad craving … so I decided to go to the store … in hope that I could give my taste buds a brutal onslaught of pleasure. However, when I got there … I didn’t have the desire to buy $30 worth of junk food, like I would normally do when I can’t figure out what my craving is. Normally my logic is, “buy everything you see that you think you might want … and at least one of them will satisfy your craving.”
In the past, that logic has failed a few times. I ended up having to go back to the store a couple of times, lol. Once I went to the store three times, and spent $70 on shit that I didn’t even want. Imagine having a table full of Tostito’s with salsa, onion rings, chocolate bars, nerds, yogurt, lifesaver’s fruit creams, smoothies, icecream, etc. Everything has been opened, and tasted … but nothing satisfies that craving. Just to finally figure out that what I was craving, and they didn’t even carry in the store. I wanted a fruit rollup. Hey, as long as you can afford to do so, moderation is irrelevant.
It was a funny scene, cause both of us are like kids … when it comes to shit like that. We ended up with a bag full of candy, with different types of sugar all mixed together. Just the way we like it … variety. In a motherly fashion (I like that) … Janelle warns us that we’re gonna get a stomach ache, and to save space for food. I or we … retort with the, “we’re not gonna eat the whole bag” … that the rest was for later. So we comb through the bag, trying out different things … seeing which ones fit our tastebud’s craving at the moment.
We’re dipping into Janelle’s bag. She has caramels, and other things we don’t. She’s dipping into ours. We’re giving critiques on some shit like, “did you try those purple ones yet? Those are good.” Well, like all little kids who are warned by an adult … we ended up with a stomach ache anyway, lol. Surprisingly, the bag of candy lasted us a couple of days. I think that was because we ate all the ones we liked first, and took our time with the rest. Oh and Bobby, don’t think I didn’t notice that the bag was missing when you left. I had a craving for candy one night, and looked for the bag to realize it wasn’t there. Stickygfingas (® see also Bobby) over there grabbed his camera, and the candy before he left, lol. =P

Our bag of candy.
So … as I was saying, this time I had no desire to be an immoderate glutton. I walked through the aisles and I didn’t want anything. I was thirsty though, so I grabbed two … 2 liter bottles of Mountain Dew, and Schweppes Ginger Ale … and headed towards the counter. The walk down that aisle was very long. I could see the Black n Milds sitting behind the register … calling me … talking to me … during the final approach. “No, I can’t buy you.” “Why not?” “Because I’m not supposed to be smoking you.” “Get one, it won’t hurt.” “No.” “Fine, get one … ‘just in case.’” I hit the counter, “uhhh … can I get a loose black?” LMFAOOOO. My fate was sealed.
On a serious note … when I got to the counter … I’m zoned out. The guy behind the counter knows me, he looks at me and I say, “yeah, I’m straight.” He looks at me odd, and I say, “sorry about that.” He asks, “are you okay?” “Yeah, I’m straight.” I said, it calmly and in the same exact tone as I said it the first time. He looks at me odd … and I say, “Yeah, I know.” He says, “that was weird.” “Yeah, I know.” I think to myself, “Shit. I’m doing this outside also?” I wasn’t even acknowledging that I was verbally speaking, till after I already said it. On some borderline “I have tourette’s syndrome, except i don’t curse … I just blurb answers to questions before you ask them” … type shit. I rush to leave the store. I don’t know why I’m even telling yall this … blar.
On my way towards the door, I see something fall … so I literally try to catch it. Nothing’s there. I open the door, and walk out … behind me is the sound of a bottle breaking on the floor. On the way from the store. “Just put it in the freezer, but don’t smoke it.” I get into the house, put the bottles in the fridge. Sit down in front of the computer, and as I am sitting there … I’m chewing on the plastic tip of the black n mild, preparing it like I normally do. I do that so when I smoke it, more smoke is inhaled at once (and yes, I inhale the cigar). So anyway, I’m sitting there chewing it … and I finally notice what I am doing. I think to myself, “put it in the freezer.”
I shit you not, I seriously wasn’t paying attention to what I was doing. It’s one of those habits which requires no conscious thought what so ever. Besides, lately I have been out of it … too many things are going on with me … physically … and in my mind. So anyway, I got up, threw on my Timbs … grabbed my lighter … and headed towards the door. In one sweeping non-stoping motion, I walked into the kitchen, but instead of going out the back door … I went towards the garbage can and threw the black n mild out. I walked away, and as I walked away I realized what just happened. In disbelief, I looked into the garbage can … I looked down and realized I had my shoes on. I grabbed the black n mild … then crumpled it up, and threw it back into the garbage.
Watching new … and old subconscious actions conflict consciously is interesting. Pandora’s box.
Exhale.
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Something in my brain broke …
[04:06:02 AM] Prasand: I went onto the back porch to get some air … even though I had nothing to smoke. As I was standing there I saw a old woman slowly walking down River Road.
[04:06:57 AM] Prasand: She was walking from my right … to my left … and for some reason I was compelled to keep my eyes fixed on her … so I was just standing there … staring.
[04:07:21 AM] Prasand: She took her time, but eventually ended up on the left side of my vision.
[04:07:59 AM] Prasand: Then as if the record skipped … she disappeared, and re-appeared on my right side.
[04:09:16 AM] Prasand: Yet, when the record plays again … she’s standing there … on my right, playing with a child that wasn’t there before.
[04:09:45 AM] Prasand: The record skips … she’s still walking down the street on my left.
[04:10:14 AM] Prasand: at the same time I can still see the images on my right … fading like ghosts.
(two separate conversations with different people)
[02:41:23 PM] Prasand: sorry … I’ve been doing that a lot lately
[02:41:48 PM] Prasand: the lines between what actually happens and what I see .. are starting to get blurred
[02:42:08 PM] Prasand: I go outside and see things happening that aren’t happening now
[02:42:27 PM] Prasand: a mixture of what people feel, and what they will do or go through
[02:43:19 PM] Prasand: so the present actions … future actions … current feelings … current thoughts .
.. future feelings … future thoughts … are all blending together for me … now
[02:43:41 PM] Prasand: and with each passing day … it’s getting harder to separate them
… and it keeps breaking.
- Prasand
arinzoheret
on September 13th, 2004
read. God, he’s beautiful <3
arinzoheret
on September 13th, 2004
::oh, and::
i ate the rest of the peach thingys on the way back to jersey BUAHAHAHA <3
Jennifer Charneco
on September 13th, 2004
LMFAO@ Bobby with like 409583405934 candies in his hand
Daisha Zanetti
on September 13th, 2004
i was just picturin pras tryna find his candy and then seen the pic wit bobby hoLdin aLL of it LOL made me giggLe <3
prasand
on September 13th, 2004
I feel … the way your avatar looks. Maybe I should go sit in a bathtub and try that.
prasand
on September 13th, 2004
Re: ::oh, and::
yeah … I remember. =P
prasand
on September 13th, 2004
=P
that picture was taken in Toronto on our way to Liza’s house … after we just left the candy store. I told him to hold it while I was taking pictures. When he’s standing to the right … by the train doors … he has two bags of candy, cause by then my cousin got so sick of the candy … she gave us the rest of hers, lol.
- Prasand
Jennifer Charneco
on September 14th, 2004
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO@ u .. I can imagine it too
Anonymous
on September 17th, 2004
my thoughts: or my mothers, ok a combination of the 2
With respect to the first two paragraphs, im sure there are so very many people that relate to that exact feeling, the “elusive craving”, I for one know it all to well, not to mention it intensified during pregnancy. So onto the point My mother told me once that when this feeling racks you and if you try to appease it by eating this, tasting that, cooking this, or even yes going on a spree at the local shop rite and are still unable to calm the craving what you seek, what you need is a kiss. I can’t say that i fully understand her logic. However, the pure romance it offers is undeniably desireable. I have yet to test the theory, yet if the chance ever presents itself, ill be sure to make mention of the results…..
Peace
Jenique
prasand
on September 17th, 2004
Re: my thoughts: or my mothers, ok a combination of the 2
I find that to be very interesting …
it makes me wonder what I was thinking, prior to the craving. I think I had just woken up … then what was I dreaming about? Mi vida? Maybe it wasn’t prompted by thoughts. Moments of “skin hunger” seem to enter my mind in response to the doubt. Where one naturally salivates for the embrace of lips … to be accented by saliva.
Interesting.
- Prasand
sheryl_nguyen
on October 6th, 2004
Is this photo fixed? Or are you a twin too?
prasand
on October 7th, 2004
Yeah Liza () edited the photo. However, the image is not of me. She combined two seperate shots of Bobby ( formerly known as ). I am 6′2″ with long dreads that extend to my ass, lol.
http://filthypras.paxed.com
- Prasand
sheryl_nguyen
on October 7th, 2004
Ok, I guess I should have looked closer. Nice editing anyway. Down to your ass eh? Interesting…kind of makes me want to grow my hair long again.
Whoa: are you seriously widowed? Or just broken up from a previous relationship? (You don’t have to answer that of course.
P.S. Nice bone structure on the jaw line.
prasand
on October 7th, 2004
LOL … your P.S. definitely made me smile. Thank you. That was unexpected.
Well, Widowed was my state before my recent relationship. Not literally … but metaphorically … as if to say my heart had died. It became my state during this recent relationship … because of many reasons … but the number one being the fact that I was blind. So … in realizing that after opening my eyes … I switched it to “Married.” Then widowed became my state … when that relationship died.
However, this time … my heart is not dead … for I am still madly in love.
- Prasand
sheryl_nguyen
on October 7th, 2004
Kudos to you for getting a piece of happiness. The explanation was more than I was expecting, so I appreciate your candor and open nature.
Honesty is few and far between, but deception seems to follow us everywhere.
prasand
on October 7th, 2004
Lately I’ve been wondering if that taste I was given … was better off not had.
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I try to be as open an honest as I can. More specifically I am completely honest / open when it comes to my perception of the person in which I am speaking to, and my feelings … or rather … the feelings they invoke. However, when it comes to my “deep” thoughts … and miscellenous feelings … that’s a different story. Yet, I am capable and have the desire / capacity to share everything … I guess it all depends on whom I am sharing it with, and the extent of their capacity / desire / willingness to listen and / or understand.
To those who’s desire is almost limitless … I am an open book.
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Many people try to be something that they are not. They convince themselves that it is the truth … and convey those fallacies. But they are merely lying to themselves, as well as everyone else.
Then others convey lies even though they consciously know it is a lie. They are the ones I perceive to be without integrity. For with the previous group … one cannot expect to be told the truth … if another is lying to themselves. Thus they maintain integrity. However, those who are lying and aware … normally, I do not have much respect for.
Though regardless of what anyone else does, or if the world lies to me … I will try and remain as true as possible.
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I digest my thoughts, but my heart with a “taste” is without a meal. Identical twin?
- Prasand
sheryl_nguyen
on October 7th, 2004
Such a thoughtful and poetic response. Reading those words is like reading a song that surges through your body and provides the nostalgic feeling that rarely happens.
I try to be as open as possible when I meet people too, albeit to some who I later find are undeserving. I tell myself I’ll stop being so open, but cannot help but be who I am.
Not identical, or so the papers have said. We do look quite similar for fraternal twins though.
prasand
on October 7th, 2004
Hrm, nostalgic feeling.
Thank you. Though I must say … after reading your response, I re-read my response a couple of times … and I couldn’t perceive the poetic tone in my words (minus the opening and closing lines). Oh well. Yet, I perceived the flow in your words to be poetic. The visual contained in a single line … is still marinating in my mind.
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I know that feeling oh so well, if the person is someone I confide in I can lessen my actions … as I begin to share with them on the level that I share with others. However, for the most part I do not know how to lessen my actions … that openness … and perceived honesty. I can’t help it either. So I usually opt to not deal with those who are undeserving. Many think that because of that … I think I am better than them. They think I believe I am too good for them. When the reality is … I feel “you might be a good person, we just don’t mix well.” It’s never a perception about one’s general character, just a limitation to our personal interaction. Though back to the marinating thought.
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“a song that surges through your body and provides the nostalgic feeling”
I’m sorry, this might take me awhile … cause I keep replaying that thought and me continually doing so leaves me with no progress. Yet, instead of hindering conversation … I will leave it with one question. Poetic moments currently do not exist?
- Prasand
sheryl_nguyen
on October 7th, 2004
They do exist, but are few and far between. I live in a time and place that leaves me living vicariously through my peers. I’ve chosen to live far away from everything familiar and I don’t regret it…I just miss the connectivity found in familiarity. My moment will come again. I have to find my new niche and identity in this period of life people call “adulthood.”
prasand
on October 7th, 2004
I believe that marriage can be one consistent form of poetry. Yet only if both parties are ready to write that poem. Where if the love is true … and even if the two aren’t on the same page … things will fall into place. When that happens … only beauty remains.
However, until then … there are breaks … in the passion … and the writing of that chapter as things become stagnant or monotonous. While there are some … where they never bounce back from that rut. Hopefully that is not the case in your situation.
Though I can imagine living on the Eastcoast is quite a change. There’s no way to appease the feeling of alienation. Compounded by you being open, and sharing … unable to express in the manner that you would like to … because of shifted environment. Are you still adapting to your move?
- Prasand
sheryl_nguyen
on October 7th, 2004
Indeed I am. I wonder if I will feel that way for a while…since I’m moving again in two years. We’re a traveling couple. I hope that someday it will all become quite normal for me to uproot myself and be forced to create new relationships each and every time. My strong bonds will stand the test of time.
Sheryl
prasand
on October 7th, 2004
You signed that last one … yet didn’t with the others. I assume that was done with reason … if even subconsciously … but won’t ask any questions, and will leave it at that. A word-less question was asked anyway, lol … interesting.
I can imagine that often times in that rut or in those moments which lack poetry … the vision of tomorrow becomes hazy.
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The other day I responded to an entry written by the woman who owns my heart. In it I said, “home is not found in a location.”
That just now wasn’t meant as contrast or advice or anything like htat … just a reflective moment of empathy. For I understand the faith in your situation. I mean, to make the changes you are doing requires someone who is willing to and going to stand by the one they love.
The ability to … go through today for the benefit tomorrow. It seems as if women nowadays don’t know how to stand by their man (and vice-versa), and everyone runs the moment they get a chance.
Damn. He’s a lucky/fortunate man. =)
- Prasand